But if a man wants sex, he can figure out what works. Here again, I didn't bring up the subject to help out the Lonely Hearts Club. The only reason I brought it up was to illustrate a point that you either missed or ignored: when a man figures out what works for him to get sex, it may not be something that works for the woman; i.e. it may be more aggression than she wants, it may not be consensual sex. That has bearing on the general topic of abusive images in erotic art, which you said elsewhere you don't want to discuss with me.