Dear IUOMA people,

Today, I wonder, if you are a discriminative type of person or a type of person who suspect /has doubts more or less on certain other IUOMA members ?

I happen to be Asian myself and so I am sensitive on these issues more or less.

For example, I have sent friend requests before and it seemed like most members did accept the requests by me but there are actually several members who may have ignored my friend  requests.  I noticed they were online more than once  after I sent friend requests to them.

  

Am I over-thinking about it ?? 🤔

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Hi there, everyone !

Thank you, thank you, for your wonderful comments so far.  I would like to respond to each one of you with as much care as possible, but now does not seem the suitable time for me, sorry ! But if any of you or anyone else would like to comment, please feel free to do so. I would be happy to communicate with you all. 🙋☺️🙏🤓💝🎀🌿🌌

Yes, let us introduce a brief artistic intermezzo into this chat.
Here is my contribution to Rusaki's Orion soup... directly inspired by the above. It speaks of whether language brings people together or pulls them apart.
There is also an entire page of written explanation that was sent, but I do not have a copy of it.

Zdravo dear Zorica,

Congratulations !! 🙋 Bravo, bravo !!

Being a part of Mr. Ryosuke Cohen's Orion Soup -- that is super AMAZING !!

I am very happy for you 🙋🎀🙋🎀🙋🎀

Don't worry or overthink it. I've also sent many friend requests that were never answered; fortunately, there are plenty of wonderful people here in IUOMA.😘

Hola Ana,

Thank you kindly! I usually try not to think about this issue because the majority of IUOMA people really seem nice but at the same, this issue is something on my mind that I cannot seem to cast aside, because in the real world, there really seem quite many discriminative type of people. Well, at least, I made this discussion thread public. We all are free to express our feelings and thoughts here.  And also, Ana, Yes, I received a very pretty card you created. Your message on the back of the card touched my heart. Muchas gracias 🙋🌿

By the way, a small piece of mail art is on its way to you right now—I hope it doesn't take too long! Best regards 😘

I'm glad you liked my mail art and to know that it arrived in Japan. Since I hadn't seen anything posted, I thought it hadn't arrived yet... I like knowing that people receive what I send and that it doesn't get lost somewhere in the world. If you need anything, I'd be happy to help 😊

We'll stay in touch 😘

In my opinion the reason to be on iuoma is to exchange art and thoughts etc. with other world-citizens.
I also delete unanswered friend-requests after a while and think they might have other priorities at that moment. I think it's normal to think about the reasons why the other person did not accept the request. But we can not know the reason. Could be anything. Most likely not the reason we think about (I hope).

Oberdada jr.:
yes there is a lack of people from a lot of countries on iuoma - it's not only countries...it's whole regions who are not to be found here.
I know that because I researched the whole IUOMA-member-list for (active) mailartists some months ago on that topic.

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